The Story Factor:
Inspiration, Influence and Persuasion through
the Art of Storytelling
People dont want more information. They want one thing:
FAITH. Faith that you are a good person, that you are here for
the right reasons. Faith that you mean what you say and know what
you are talking about. They want faith that if they change
.that
it will all turn out okay. Only story can deliver, build, and
sustain faith.
Six Stories That Influence
- Who Are YOU?
- Why are you HERE?
- What is your Vision?
- Teaching Stories
- Value in Action Stories
- "I know what you are thinking" Stories
Developing "Who Am I /Why Im here"
Stories:
Step One: What personal qualities make you a trustworthy
person?
(i.e. are you compassionate, smart, courageous, honest, etc?)
Write at least two of those qualities here:
Step Two: Choose one of these qualities and develop a
three-minute story that delivers evidence of that quality. (since
you can hardly walk into a room and expect people to believe "I
am a trustworthy person"):
- A time in your life when this quality was tested
- A person/event in your life that taught you the importance
of this quality
- A time when you failed your own standards and decided to never
let it happen again
- A movie/story/event that exemplifies this quality for you.
Step Three: Find someone to listen to your story. Ask
them to tell you what they like about the story and what this
story tells them about you. Ask them to refrain from making suggestions
or giving a critique. Tell it again to someone else.
Step Four: Tell your story the next time you give a presentation
or try to influence someone
if it works, tell it again. It
will develop and grow into a story that not only helps others have
faith in you
.but helps you have faith in yourself.